Eating out with young children...
So this story was born of a particular experience...
I went to visit friends who had, shall I say, a 'lively' toddler. A babysitter was booked so we adults could go out for dinner, but at the last minute, my friends got a call to say she couldn't make it. My lovely friends thought it would be just too much to expect their little boy, David, to sit quietly with us while we ate, and suggested we order out... but I was sure he could cope and went out to my car to get my teddy (a longer story...) Dan. |
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Zeki Eats Out
written by Anna McQuinn art by Ruth Hearson Published by Alanna Max May 27th 2024 US edition publishing September 2024 by Charlesbridge |
I sat David down and told him that we were going to a restaurant but we were not sure Dan would be able to behave. I asked David if he would take charge of Dan, explain to him that he would have to sit nicely while we waited for food; that he was not to play with the cutlery, the plates OR the food; but that we would bring along some toys. It wasn't quite an opportunity for play, but close... and David seemed keen to take responsibility!
We were lucky to have a wonderful elderly waiter, just like Bruno.
Not only did he get a suitable chair for David, but he got one for Dan too AND put a napkin on both their laps - exactly as he did for the adults.
I can report that Dan did really well, and only had to be called to attention once or twice by David! And we all had a wonderful meal and evening together.
So when I came to write this story of course I had to chanel this experience almost exactly (except that Zeki has his own Mr. Seahorse).
We were lucky to have a wonderful elderly waiter, just like Bruno.
Not only did he get a suitable chair for David, but he got one for Dan too AND put a napkin on both their laps - exactly as he did for the adults.
I can report that Dan did really well, and only had to be called to attention once or twice by David! And we all had a wonderful meal and evening together.
So when I came to write this story of course I had to chanel this experience almost exactly (except that Zeki has his own Mr. Seahorse).
How it's going! More than 20 years later... David Campbell and Huxley (above right) enjoying Zeki Loves Daddy!
Just this weekend - a few weeks before publication, I welcomed David to my home.
He was accompanied by his wife Levi and his young son, Huxley, as well as his brother Dylan. We didn't go out to lunch, but I can report that Huxley behaved beautifully at the table at lunch and David, Levi and Dylan enjoyed my old story - and my new one!
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